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Talking To Your Partner About Your Fantasies
Have you ever been curious about tied up or exploring bondage? Maybe you’ve fantasized about you and your partner dressing up in costumes and trying some role play? Have you thought about what it would be like to participate in...
The Most Common Anal Play Myths Debunked
Anal play is arguably the most misunderstood and fear-inducing type of sexual activity for a number of reasons. Apart from the taboo that lingers around anal sex and exploration, many people who may be interested in exploring anal play are...
Do lube and condoms really go off?
They certainly do! All types of lubricants, enhancers and condoms will degrade and lose effectiveness over time but how quickly they will go off depends not just on their expiry date but also on how they are stored. Expired lubes...
What's Your Stimulation Style?
When it comes to clitoral stimulation, we all have different preferences for the type and intensity of sensation that feels just right and helps us reach that “Big O”. What stimulation we like can vary also depending on our mood,...
The Amazing A-Spot
Most people are aware of the G-spot but the A-spot is something that you might not know existed but many people with vulvas have definitely felt it’s presence during deep penetrative sex or while playing with toys. The A-spot is...
P Marks The Spot: Exploring Prostate Play
The prostate gland (or P-spot) is a walnut sized, fleshy feeling bulb of tissue that wraps around the urethra and forms part of a male’s reproductive system. It serves an important purpose; it produces seminal fluid that mixes with sperm...
Pleasure and Pain: Exploring Impact Play
Impact play is a much loved but sometimes misunderstood form of kink play. Like many other kinky or vanilla sexual acts, impact play is aimed at evoking a sensation, in this case, pain. Some people struggle with the concept of...
Strap On Play: Take Your Sex Life To A New Level
Strap ons are one of those truly universal categories of adult toys: there’s something in strap on play for everyone to enjoy, regardless of gender and sexual orientation. Many strap on harness are designed to give people without penises the...
A Touch of Kink: Introduction to Bondage
Thanks to the Fifty Shades of Grey series and How To Build A Sex Room, more people are becoming curious about delving into the exciting world of kink and BDSM. Introducing some elements of BDSM into your relationship can open...
C-Rings: How to Choose and Use One
What are they and how do they work? Cock rings, otherwise known as C-rings, erection enhancement rings or couple’s rings are simple, safe and time honoured devices beloved by many people with penises and their partners. They come in many...
Romantic to Raunchy: Toys to Revamp Your Sex Life
Have you and your partner found that the excitement and sense of adventure in your sex life has faded over time? Adding toys to foreplay and sex can help spice things up and allow both of you to explore new...
Mind Blowing Magic With Wand Vibrators
Wand vibrators, also known as magic wands or massage wands are a much loved type of vibrator designed for external use. Originally marketed as a general body massager for sore muscles, women in the 1970s began to explore alternative uses...
Keeping Up With The Kegels: Conditioning Your Pelvic Floor Muscles
Kegel exercises are sets of targeted muscle contractions performed with the aim of strengthening your pelvic floor muscles; a sling shaped group of muscle tissue that runs between your pubic bone in the front to your tailbone in the back...
All About Penis Pumps
Penis pumps are devices that use a vacuum effect to draw blood into the erectile tissue of the penis. They offer a non-invasive way to help men with erectile dysfunction get an erection which, when combined with a cock ring,...
A Hands On Guide To Male Masturbators
While toys for people with vulvas are becoming increasing mainstream, toys for people with penises have been slower to catch up, especially in the case of strokers and masturbators. In the same way that vibrators have given women the freedom...
Supercharge Your Sensation With Arousal Gels and Oils
Arousal gels and oils are a great way to increase sensation and intensify your pleasure during solo play, foreplay and partnered sex. Designed for topical use on the clitoris, clitoral hood and/or vulva, they work to heighten sensitivity and amplify...
Dual Density Silicone: Double the Delight
Silicone toys are a favourite here at Get On Top. Not only are they incredibly durable and easy to clean, they’re also non-reactive and non-porous making them one of the safest materials to put in your body. When it comes...
Bunny Bliss: A Guide To Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit vibrators have come a long way from their debut on on Sex And The City back in 1998! With an insertable shaft for targeting the G-spot as well as an external clitoral vibrator, rabbit vibes offer unparalleled dual stimulation and more intense, blended...
Beginning Butt Stuff
Back door play can be incredibly pleasurable for everyone but when you're just starting out exploring anal play, the whole idea can seem a bit daunting. Here are some tips to help get you started.
Titillating Tips For Nipple Play
Big or small, perky or saggy, breasts are both beautiful and useful. Sadly, they’re often neglected or overlooked as potential sources of incredible pleasure. In fact, in the case of a lucky few women, nipple stimulation can even be a...
Ignite Your Senses: Exploring Sensory Play

When it comes to pleasure, desire and arousal, you’re limited only by your imagination in how you can engage your senses to heighten you and your partner's enjoyment and intimacy before and during sex.